nonchalant obsession wrote:
Ooooo SheWolf, your "good part" was very, very good. He was quite the "eager boy"!
More details? I can't get enough.
There arenâ€™t too many details as I didnâ€™t interact with him aside from the hug and taking a couple of pics of him with others.
He was an eager hugger with me and it sounded like he was that way with others as well. I didnâ€™t feel weird asking him. It wasnâ€™t awkward. He didnâ€™t hesitate. He initiated. I think he likes us ladies & he likes our hugs so Iâ€™d say to anyone â€“ give that dude a cuddle!
I knew I had wanted a hug picture but until that moment I had never considered what that really meant. I think I was expecting us to stand side by side, each of us with one arm around the other. So when I got this full on hug it took me a second to process it. There was a moment when a little voice inside my head said â€œHeâ€™s hugging you and youâ€™re not hugging himâ€ so then my arms went into motion. I donâ€™t really remember how he felt but I remember the way his hands felt on my back. He kind of pulled me towards him a bit but in a respectful way. He wasnâ€™t squeezing me but he had me locked up good and tight.
Agree totally with FS â€“ I would never ask him to get down on bended knee or anything like that. I donâ€™t want him to feel like a performing monkey â€“ do this, do that, now dance. To his credit he is completely accommodating. Iâ€™ve never heard of him denying any request.
Non ob â€“ I canâ€™t believe Jem said â€œhow do you want me?â€ What a loaded question. I think Iâ€™d have had a saucy smirk on my face if he had asked me that.
I feel badly when I read of people getting nervous and not being able to get what they wanted out of the situation. Iâ€™m sure you are all being too hard on yourselves. Bottom line is you got the job done, you got to meet them, you got pics, you delivered awesome gifts, and itâ€™s all good.
I wasnâ€™t nervous in their presence. Iâ€™ve never met a person who elicited that response in me so I guess I should check to see if I have a pulse
. I think there is something really humbling and cool about seeing that they are real human beings and I see it as a somewhat vulnerable position to venture into a group of strangers and just comply with their every wish. It's a lovely thing to see how FOTC treat their fans. Their
awesomeness knows no bounds.